Today, I ran 9 miles with M.
9.
Suddenly, my mileage has crept up without even so much as planning, just quietly adding on to our usual route the past few weeks, one more mile each week.
And why?
Because I quietly want to support my sister Jess and brother in law Scott, on their quest for 26.2.
So I anointed myself ‘virtual sherpa’ duties. To run ‘out of my comfort zone’ every Tuesday morning as they set out for their long runs, runs that each week set them out of their comfort zones into continued PDR territory. 16, 18 and today, 20 miles strong.
I’ve gotten up, laced up my sneakers and simply ran, these past few weeks, in particular, strong(er), happy, and sending as many vibes, strength and faith their way as they conquered more miles.
And unintentionally and unexpectedly, I’ve found myself embracing longer distances. Slowly ticking away. Gaining confidence. And wondering. How many more can I tack on? M and I ran quietly much of the time today, calling out bunnies (fewer and farther in between lately, sad face. But I told Jess I sent them her way this morning, as they saw NINE bunnies on their run. See? Even the bunnies are sherpa’ing!), and having my own personal jukebox as M sang out random tunes that were stuck in his head.
I ran proud. For my sister. For my brother in law. For M. And last but not least, for me.
Quietly sherpa’ing. Quietly supporting. And being the proudest sister I think I have ever been. The spotlight’s on her, and I love it. I love every minute of it. No comparison games, no ‘wishing it was me,’ just support. And that feels incredibly rewarding in itself.

August 21, 2012 at 10:41 am
I love this post! And I love how you are rediscovering a love for longer miles. It’s amazing how being of service to others helps us rediscover what we truly love.
August 21, 2012 at 10:43 am
Aww thank you Naomi!! It is crazy to think I am loving this too, and it really is because of support and service to others – such a great point
August 21, 2012 at 10:45 am
Aw sis, you made me cry!! You have been nothing short of amazing this entire time…not that you haven’t always been an amazing and supportive sister, but this? You’re sending me (and Scott) such strength and love and support in ways i don’t even think you fully realize. You are such a blessing to me sis, love you!!! (even saying that doesn’t seem like enough…once again, at a loss for words, the right words…to fully describe all that I’m feeling throughout this journey). xoxo
August 21, 2012 at 9:05 pm
You made me cry too! In your comment here, and in reading your post, and just seeing our sisterhood grow with each passing sherpa week. It has really brought us together even more too, and I just love that, sis. I am so incredibly proud of you both and cannot wait to cheer you on like a crazy person in October. Love you!
August 21, 2012 at 11:35 am
I love that you are supporting Jess in such an amazing and thoughtful way! And it’s awesome that your mileage is creeping up. You and your sister have an amazing relationship, I love it!
August 21, 2012 at 9:05 pm
Thank you so much!! I love doing this, absolutely love how this has turned out, for both of us!!
August 21, 2012 at 12:18 pm
i so happy you embraced the sherpa skills! you are a natural!
August 21, 2012 at 9:06 pm
Why thank you friend, I learn from the best
XOXO
August 21, 2012 at 12:59 pm
I’ve got a sherpa-ing post coming today too! I love this my friend. You’re doing this out of love and support but you’re finding some confidence in your own abilities as well.
August 21, 2012 at 9:06 pm
I LOVED your sherpa post!! And I love how supportive and caring YOU are too as a fellow sherpa in crime. And I love that this is helping my running too. Like night and day!
August 21, 2012 at 3:59 pm
Ah that’s so lovely you’re supporting Jess in her fabulous running journey. So nice that you both have a close bond and such a strong respect and support for each other.
August 21, 2012 at 9:06 pm
Thank you! I am loving how this is bringing us even closer
August 21, 2012 at 7:03 pm
Your tweets on this crack me up! What a cool way to support them!
August 21, 2012 at 9:06 pm
It is a cool and fun way to support them
August 21, 2012 at 7:07 pm
I know you two know how incredibly great you have it! What an incredible support system you have. You all are incredibly inspirational and today’s run felt amazing knowing I was’t alone! Thank you for sharing that moment with me! There is nothing better than quietly knowing you have an incredible support system.
August 21, 2012 at 9:07 pm
We really do, the best relationship, sisterhood, and friendship. I wouldn’t change it for the world and I try my best to not take it for granted either, even when we do argue over the stupidest things sometimes
(she will know what I am talking about!). I am so glad YOU shared in this too, what a fun morning!
August 21, 2012 at 7:37 pm
So awesome that you are supporting your sister this way. I call Josh my Sherpa, but that’s because he bikes alongside me on my long runs and carries my food and water. Way more materialistic than the way you are describing it.
August 21, 2012 at 9:08 pm
It was the best! And I love that he supports you too, how great is that. Carries it all for you! M does that for me too, carried our water and the keys. So nice
August 21, 2012 at 9:04 pm
I love this so much! All of the sherpa talk truly makes me so happy, and I am so inspired by everyone’s support for Jess (and for each of us in different ways)! I think it’s pretty fantastic that you ran 9 miles this morning!! And love that M is right there running with you… <3
August 21, 2012 at 9:08 pm
I love it too, friend! I love how we just spontaneously came together on this and at it from all directions, all different miles, all for the same cause
And I loved that M was with me too, made it so SO much better!
August 21, 2012 at 9:16 pm
That’s awesome that you are able to support your sister and even better that you are really enjoying it. 9 miles is no joke!
August 22, 2012 at 9:42 am
Thank you! 9 was actually great, who knew?!
August 21, 2012 at 10:34 pm
That is so awesome that you did this! What an amazing support system!! xo
August 22, 2012 at 9:42 am
Thank you! I love that I can support them this way!
August 21, 2012 at 10:37 pm
I love this and all the sherpa-ing that’s going on in support of Jess and Scott. And the fact that they saw 9 bunnies???! Ah-mazing.
August 22, 2012 at 9:43 am
the 9 bunnies IS amazing isn’t it?? Love that AND all the sherpa-ing floating around
August 22, 2012 at 12:16 pm
I’m a little late to the party, but I so love this!
And I saw 3 bunnies on Saturday while running and totally thought of you. I meant to tell you sooner but just forgot!
August 22, 2012 at 1:12 pm
Thank you!! I love it too. Still beaming
And that is so cute! bunnies!! always think of me when you see them hehe!
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August 23, 2012 at 8:09 am
The people that are quiet are the most deadliest:) You are amazing! Look at you. I think someone may have some marathons in their future?! Shadow running is always hard and you’ve done such an awesome job cheer leading and showing your true support.
They do say that bunnies know how to multiply!
August 23, 2012 at 8:17 am
Quiet are the deadliest! haha! quiet is the way I like to roll
No expectations, just surprises
No marathon for me, but I guess never say never, right?
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